Ah, the age-old debate: Should you go with a live band or a DJ for your wedding?
If you asked Grandma, she’d probably say, “Why not both?” But let’s break it down anyway (complete with a few of her trademark observations lol)
Energy & Atmosphere
A live band brings that classic wow factor.
Grandma says it reminds her of the old dance halls—live instruments, smooth harmonies, and a sense of occasion that feels special.
Watching a talented band perform live is like being front row at a concert (without needing earplugs).
On the flip side, a DJ can shift the mood instantly.
From elegant string covers of love songs to dropping Bruno Mars at just the right moment, DJs are chameleons.
They adjust the vibe on the fly—and let’s be honest, Grandma might not know how to dougie, but she’ll appreciate the flow.
Grandma would say: “That band looks sharp! But what do you mean they don’t take requests?”
Song Variety
Here’s where DJs shine.
Got a cousin who wants ’90s hip-hop and an uncle who insists on line dancing?
A DJ can handle it all—seamlessly.
Bands are talented, but they’re usually locked into a style or genre.
Grandma would say: “I liked the band’s third song, but why didn’t they play Elvis?”
Space & Budget
Live bands come with a lot of gear (and people).
They take up space and need time to set up.
That’s not ideal if your venue is cozy.
A DJ, on the other hand, brings a modern, compact setup that looks clean and polished.
Grandma would say: “That band took up half the room! Where will we do the chicken dance?”
Guest Interaction
A great DJ doesn’t just play music—they host your night.
They guide the flow, introduce the couple, coordinate with vendors, and get people moving.
Think of them like your wedding’s cruise director.
A band might chat between songs, but few bring that emcee magic like Dan does in the video below.
Grandma would say: “That DJ was like a game show host! I liked him.”
Bonus: The Hybrid Option
Want the best of both worlds? Bring in a live sax player or violinist to accompany your DJ during cocktail hour or your grand entrance. It gives you live flair without the full band logistics.
Grandma would say: “Now that’s fancy. And I could still hear myself talk!”
Whether you go full-band, full-DJ, or a blend of both, just make sure the night feels like you. And don’t forget—if Grandma’s on the dance floor, you’ve already won.
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Written by Dan’s events
Wedding Entertainer | Emcee | Your behind-the-scenes hype man